How can parents meet the needs of a child with a disability and the desires of non-disabled siblings?
The question almost sounds selfish. Parents wonder how the fun of one child can hold the same weight as the needs of another. In fact, the desire to have a fun vacation and physical needs are shared by all children. Here are a few considerations.
Some vacation spots are more accessible or accommodating than others. And the needs vary greatly from child to child. While one child may need a sign language interpreter to enjoy a show, another may need ramps and physical assistance to get on and off of rides.
Parents can start with researching the services available. They also are wise to check with other parents for first-hand experience.
Some families opt to take help along. An extended family member or babysitter may be able to help out when a part of a trip is not appropriate or only possible with an extra set of hands. Sometimes, they can provide care while one child explores with parents. Consider that it may not always be the special needs child who needs someone to provide care. Perhaps the outing of the day is for the child with special needs and the siblings just want another day on the beach. Could another adult provide the beach supervision while Mom and Dad attend the air conditioned show with the special needs child? Perhaps the next day will be an outing geared for the non-disabled siblings.
In some areas, professional services are available for individuals to be hired to be the extra help when traveling. A quick search on the internet can provide starting information for a family to find out if this type of service is right for them.
Sometimes the best option may be to take separate trips. This thought can tear at the heart of parents. However, it is not necessarily an exclusion of any child. In some cases, it is actually providing fun for every child in the family. Consider several shorter trips. Perhaps there will be a getaway with each child and then one for the whole family. Many families would consider this an option based on age (such as families with a young baby). In some instances, it is appropriate for families with a child with a disability.
The cool weather of fall calls to the heart of the traveler – young and old, disabled and non-disabled. With a little planning, a great getaway can be had by all. Read more about travel with a child with a disability. Join a discussion on this topic.
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